Therapy for executives who have done everything right and still feel like something is off

The problem

You're good at your job. You know that. But somewhere along the way the cost of doing it well started to change, and no amount of delegation, time off, or strategy adjustment seems to touch it. The work gets done, the results are there, but something underneath has shifted.

For some people it's the isolation that comes with seniority. For others it's an identity that has slowly become inseparable from output, to the point where slowing down feels dangerous. Or it's the persistent feeling of being one mistake away from losing everything you've built, even though the evidence says otherwise.

These aren't problems that another offsite or another framework will solve. They tend to need a different kind of attention.

What executive therapy is

Executive therapy is psychotherapy for people in senior professional roles. Not coaching with a different label, and not a softer version of clinical work. It takes the professional context seriously rather than treating it as background noise, and it goes deeper than performance optimization into the patterns that actually drive behaviour.

It looks at things like why identity becomes inseparable from output, why success doesn't settle the internal question it was supposed to answer, and why certain interpersonal dynamics at work keep repeating.

The difference between an executive therapist and a general therapist is mostly context. If your therapist needs half the session just to understand what happened in your week, that's time spent on orientation rather than the actual work.

How I work

I'm a licensed psychotherapist with 18+ years in B2B SaaS. I've led growth strategy at startups and inside IBM's enterprise portfolio, and I've advised 50+ companies on the kind of work my clients carry into sessions every week.

That means I already understand the environment you're operating in. We don't have to spend time on context-setting, which lets us get to the real work faster.

I write about the psychology of ambition and performance at Undisguised (5,000+ subscribers). The writing explores the patterns. The private work is where we actually address them.

Who this is for

Founders, VPs, directors, and senior ICs in tech. People who are doing well by any external measure and still feel like something isn't working. Some common threads:

Chronic self-doubt alongside strong performance. Achievement patterns tied to early approval-seeking that were never examined. Decision paralysis that isn't really about the decision. Burnout that rest doesn't fix. Overthinking that has become a default setting rather than a useful tool.

If you're used to solving problems through effort and analysis, and this particular one isn't responding to either, it might be worth a conversation.

How it works

All sessions are remote, one-on-one, and confidential. Most clients are across Europe and the US. Sessions run weekly or biweekly.

The first session is 60 minutes and free. We use it to figure out what's actually going on and whether working together makes sense. If it doesn't, I'll say so.


Common questions

What is executive therapy, exactly?

Psychotherapy for people in leadership and senior roles. It goes beyond performance optimization into the patterns and internal dynamics that shape how you lead, make decisions, and relate to others. It works best when the therapist understands the professional context, not just the clinical side.

How is this different from executive coaching?

Coaching tends to focus on skills and strategy. Therapy works with what's underneath: why you're stuck, why certain patterns keep repeating, why approaches that used to work have stopped working. A lot of what gets called coaching actually needs therapeutic depth to address properly.

I'm not sure if I need therapy or coaching. How do I decide?

If the challenge is situational and skill-based, coaching is usually enough. If the same patterns keep appearing across different roles, relationships, and decisions, and you suspect the real obstacle is internal, that's more likely therapy territory. Starting with therapy often makes later coaching more useful.

Why would a tech professional also be a therapist?

Because context matters in this work. I've been on the other side of the table for 18+ years. That shared experience means we spend less time explaining the environment and more time on what's actually happening inside it.

Can analytical people benefit from therapy?

Yes, though the analytical mind is often part of what keeps people stuck. Self-analysis can become a way to maintain control rather than a path to change. Good therapy works with that pattern rather than being fooled by it.

Is this available remotely?

Yes. All sessions are online. Most clients prefer it for flexibility and privacy.


Next step

The first session is free, 60 minutes, no obligations. We use it to figure out what's going on and whether working together makes sense.